Be there for youself !

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2021, surely a tough one for almost everyone. This year, I won, failed, cried, laughed, learned, loved and lost my best friend. Now we are strangers again but with memories. Forever is a lie, but the bond is everlasting. Yes, I do miss her everyday, but I am happier not being in a bond that turned toxic. 


All my life I have lost a lot of people, and I feel turning into a heartless person who won't care about losing many others. I used to be afraid of losing people until I started realizing that they were never really supposed to be a part of my life. I am no more afraid of losing anyone when I start seeing them take my loyalty and love for granted.


They say that a person who is okay being alone is a powerful person. Yeah I do have a lot of people around me but my heart is becoming like the moon, who is surrounded by many but still alone in the dark and then there is that sun that lights my heart up in the darkest hour. But still when it's in the middle of the night and at times when I have a breakdown of thinking of all that I have gone through, it's only me who has me to wipe my tears. I taught myself to be there for me. 


I don't tell people my problems because none can actually fix it. What are they even gonna do, just tell me I am gonna be okay? Tell me they understand? My soul is tired, no one can help me! People are gonna just come and go and I move on fast when someone leaves me, but that doesn't make me cold hearted or someone who doesn't give a shit, but probably that's me loving myself more and more with every loss :)


We are very good at supporting our family and friends. We keep caring about others and yet forget taking care of ourselves? Why are we not there for ourselves the way we are for others? We need to focus on ourselves and on our needs instead of neglecting them. Listening to your feelings is a way of being completely in touch with your true self. It is treating yourself like you would treat a friend or someone that you love with your whole heart.


Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind. You need your love and care too. Loving yourself means being your own bestfriend, being there for yourself no matter what. Let go of that unworthy feeling that's deep within yourself. You are deserving and worthy of having the best things. If someone in the past made you feel as though you weren't good enough, let this be a reminder that YOU ARE THE BEST. Don't forget it. Love you ❤.


Love,
DJ ❤

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  1. kandeeMarch 6, 2022 at 11:52 PM

    I don't tell people my problems because none can actually fix it. What are they even gonna do, just tell me I am gonna be okay? Tell me they understand? .. this line hits hard nice blog btw

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